Do you always seem to end up with losers at the end of your bond? Are you tired of dating jerks and looking for better men? Seems like you’ve been hurt too many times, already, to expect for others to treat you differently? Perhaps it’s time to stop and think about what you really want. Here are some pointers on how to spot a loser man.
The first thing you need to determine is why are you with him. Are you dating him for the wrong reasons? Are you trying to compensate for something lacking in your life or are you just trying to hold on to someone you no longer love or need.
Loser man will more likely feel less no need to provide. Therefore, you may find yourself taking care of some wounded bird. You may find yourself with poor person who ordinarily would not eat. That is not a good sign are you feeling adequate about the relationship?
Providing is not a prerequisite to emotional growth but learning how to identify emotionally is. When a man is emotionally unprepared he will be able to project this through, an unhealthy relationship. So, for the sake of your sanity and your soul, if you must date him, please be cautious of him.
Love is a grand thing and should be cherished. But a vulnerable man is not an asset, he is a liability. On the other hand a strong man brings a person closer.
Finally, don’t go after the weak. A magnetizing woman, one who respects herself and therefore others (as I received this letter from a lady a few days ago) would be so much more likely to attract a wonderful man into her life.